No matter how nice we try to put things, there is no denying that life is a battle. Everyday is a struggle.
However, with every struggle is a blessing. We are blessed to be alive and given the chance to make changes everyday.
People say, “live your life to the fullest”; I am here to do just that.
Hi, My name is Nadrah and this is my story.
I'm a daughter, a sister, a granddaughter, a cousin, a friend, a wife and a mother but most of all, I will always be a little girl at heart.
This blog is about my life and how I try to live it to the fullest while keeping it well balanced.

Monday 17 March 2014

Biased and unprofessional? I guess in this case, I'm ok with that

I guess it is true what they say that you will have a different perspective of life once you are a mother. In my case it started when I was pregnant. Having to go through all the pregnancy sickness, we put aside our vanity and think more about the health of our fetus. It's like when we go in and out of the toilet, not once came in our mind that your baby is a nuisance to you. Unconditional love comes naturally that you wouldn't mind dying for someone you've never met. From there, you can know how much your mother loves you. Going through childbirth makes me appreciate my mother even more. I remembered scolding my husband a lot and wouldn't stop telling my mom how much I love her as I endured labor pain. The whole experience makes me even more defensive towards my mom that I've decided to remove a particular person from my life for saying awful things about my mother. I'm quite certain that my mother, just like any other human being, is flawed but I don't appreciate it when the particular person brings up my mom as a bad choice of caterer for providing insufficient food. Not especially when my mom bought a few pieces of the person's frozen food in support of her business without thinking twice. When comfronted on the matter, the person says that it was the waiter's fault. If it were so, my mother brought up as the person who provided insufficient food and as a result, embarassment was incurred and the family's image is tarnished. They always say that it doesn't matter what happens to you. What matters is how you respond. I've always been straight forward and I'm not the kind to put on a kind face even if I do not like/agree to a person. If you have a business you would know that managing a business can be tough but our main concern at Katie Kitchen is to provide the best service we can according to our customer's concern and budget. Professional or not, I can't help being biased towards my mom. Yes, she is flawed and we do have disagreements. On some days she can be the most annoying person on earth who keeps testing my patience. But should anything happen, InsyaAllah I will be there for ger. After all, she is my gift from God, the first person to love me unconditionally and only have my best interest at heart. Someone should protect her too just as how she cared for me. 

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