Forever After?

I’ve been married for slightly over a month and yesterday, we celebrated our 4th anniversary together. However, our celebration was not like our usual dine out and spend quality time together this year. It was more into a family sort of thing where we broke our fast at home with family and went out to shop for Raya clothes with in laws. With our hectic schedule and time taken to satisfy both families (in law’s and own’s) plus a little side business to get extra income and hubster’s commitment to his dance crew, Sole to Soul Dance Company, we barely have time to do anything else. So, last night was our only chance to go out. How’s life being married would pretty much be the first question everyone will ask. No, I’m not going to write a post about my husband being a sweet talking loving kind of guy nor will I write any relationship advice (especially since I’ve only been married for 1 month and 11 days). As much as a girl would like a man to woo her all the time, my husband is not a sweet talker with me. I won’t be lavished with “I miss you”s, nor “You’re in my dreams” (clearly because Pixie Lott and Cheryl Tweedy reign his heart! hmph!) nor “I can’t live without you”s (he can't live without dancing and football.. Haha!!!). Instead, he is a joker who pretty much makes me laugh everyday. I personally think that is a good quality considering that I think too much and need to lighten up a little (OK, well a lot!). When I’m down, he will always do something funny or remind me that I’m his wife, which is why I’m special (and vice versa too). I can’t deny that there are challenges adjusting to married life. What’s important is that even if you think you are alone, God (In my case, Allah SWT) is always there for you whenever and wherever you are. Everyday I wake up feeling blessed with all the love that I get; and pray for strength, patience, prosperity and most importantly, our marriage to last forever after and filled with lots of love. :)